Our collective culture of men are operating on super flaccid electricity, and lack positive sexual energy that fuels the cycle of life.
In a death cycle response of disappointment, women shut down, numb, constrict, become angry, and turn frozen.
To sooth this relationship dynamic, both partners begin to play out a dysfunctional subconscious relationship dynamic. This dynamic is actually initiated by the feminine, and looks like this.

She will go into action and do everything like super woman, and make things happen. She is super woman……She has everything in life ''handled”. She protects her roost, creates her nest, and manages the daily logistic of life. Her vital life force is drained, and her life becomes depleted. Her dreams wither, and her body rebels. She ages quickly and angers swiftly.
She begins to see if giving her man more: time, space, gifts, sex, is the key to his inner power. Yet nothing she tries unlocks the keys to her peace. Her calling to be held, be safe, feel electricity, and receive nourishment from the masculine.
She awakens like a sleeping dragon as one day she discovers she has become a Nanny To The King.

You have lost your sparkle.
Are you Ready To Be On Fire For Life

And Unleashed In The Bedroom?